A TRIBUTE TO MY FATHER
Be Thankful – Yes, say “Thank You” and “Please”. He asked for help and he was grateful for the help. Thank you Daddy for everything a great father could possibly be.
Be Giving/Charitable – He was very charitable and giving. He loved to give and also receive. He helped many people and gave when he had lots of money and when he did not have a lot of money. Charity was in him.
Be Honest – Before he retired he had a small business and also paid all taxes due. Never tried to hide the income. That’s why he was left with so little profit after costs and taxes. He had a good time running the business though.
Get a good education – My father believed in education and he made sure he drilled it into people he met. He made sure all his 7 children graduated from college and at least had 1 or more degrees. He picked me up from college late at night, 2 nights a week, for a year that I did not yet have a driver’s license. He was a proud father. He loved going to graduations (as much as going to parties) including his grand children’s whenever he could. He was a very proud grandfather.
Do not smoke – It’s all over the place why smoking is bad for human beings. I cannot understand why some people still smoke. Stop it. Don’t start smoking. It caused all kinds of respiratory illnesses and cancer. And a lot of pain. And it really killed!
NOTE: Smoking kills! DO NOT SMOKE! REALLY NO SMOKING!
July 9th, 2010 – My father passed on at the hospital with respiratory failure after the battle with lung cancer for over 1 year. His lungs failed. He stopped smoking over 30 years ago, but still. May he rest peacefully in heaven.

I’m so very sorry for your loss. May your father rest in peace.
I’m so sorry for your loss; may your father rest in peace.
Thank you Lequan.
I am so sorry for your loss! This post was a beautiful tribute to your Dad. He was an amazing man and had a great philosophy about things. I miss my Dad too and I am so thankful for all that he taught me and others. Your father’s love and beautiful character lives on in you. I will pray for you and your family! I am so very sorry! I truly understand what you feel and my heart goes out to you!
Mama Hen
Thank you for your comments. I always feel sad when I see thos post because I really miss my Dad and I know you do too. Yet at the same time I know your Dad would be so proud to know you wrote this tribute to him. I hope you are well. Have a good night!
Mama Hen
Thanks Mama Hen. I am sorry that you feel sad. Your Dad went suddenly and it must have been really hard for you to let go. Before my Dad passed on, I got to spend some time with him and having lunch with him in between his doctors appointments and chemo treatments. I have not completely let go but my daughter keeps me busy and that helps. I am reminded of my responsibilities as a parent and have better understanding of how my parents felt when we were young. My 7 year old daughter said she missed Grandpa too and I had to say repeatedly “Grandpa is in a good place up there now and I miss him too.” I could not come up with so many other lines. We have a chance to go on and be a good parent to our children just as our parents were to us. Let’s do our best. I love that you are/were a teacher and can have positive impact on so many children year after year. I hope I can do that too. Hugs to Little Chick.
Forgive me for commenting so late but I am so sorry about your dad. He was obviously an amazing person who taught you so much. I hope that you are doing well under the circumstances – and again, I’m so sorry I didn’t comment earlier!